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A bit of advice please?

(#) XxxFallenAngelXxxx 2012-01-06 04:15:33 PM

I`m not going to pretend to be good at giving advice, but I like to help people whenever I can, so here goes.
The family thing cannot be nice. Maybe try talking to them, they are your family and if they know how it makes you feel then they should be sorry and stop. If not then when you can move out. Maybe spend time with friends, do nice things that make you happy. This could simply be listening to music, which helps me a lot, or maybe saving up and treating yourself to something. I don`t know what makes you happy, I`m not you.
When I am angry I try and go for a walk, screem into a pillow, sing along loudly to music, play my guitar or practie Tae Kwon Do. The key is to try and calm down by trying to take your self away from the situation that angers you and to try to cool off wihtout the situation getting worse.
They shouldn`t be putting you down, but remmember that no one has the right to make you feel low about yourself so hard as it is, try to ignore whatever it is they say. And like I said earlier, talk to them. Maybe they don`t realise that it is hurting you.
I used to suffer from minor athsma as a young child but I was lucky and it never really put me in any danger. Maybe ask a few questions about it? Ask the doctors what it is they are conerned about or if not your parents. It is your health afterall and you have a right to know about it. I know little about athsma but maybe look it up and see if there is anything you could do that may posisbly helo it a little? I don`t know if there is, but it may be worth looking up.
I`m sorry to hear ting are not too great for you, I really am. If you ever feel liek talking, I`m on here a hell of a lot as I have no life. Well I`m home ed so Whenever I go on the laptop for work I normally check on here so yeah...I hope things look up for you soon. Sorry that this bit of advice is pretty crappy. I hope some of it helped, if only a little
xoxodakota

Author's response

I seem to spend my life on this website:')

Thank you very much! I know that the way I can help my asthma is by exercise, but I can't because it's so bad, you know? It's silly. The Doctors keep going 'Ohhh exercise, ohhhh' and I'm like 'I can't breathe, bro.'

So it kinda sucks.

But thank you very much. I've told my sister I really don't want to fight anymore and we came to the conclusion we were fighting because of all the stress in our lives at the moment.

I go for walks, now, to help myself. I think it help - it let's me clear my mind. :)

And you're not terrible at giving advice at all. Thank you:)

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