Or advice or something I'm really scared. Just anyone please help me.
(#) Kaleidoscope_Eyes 2012-06-01 02:42:41 PMI'm sure that your parents will understand that it wasn't your fault. And your boyfriend will understand too. I know that it's scary but the best thing to do is go to your parents with it. Your parents will always love you and I'm sure they can provide you with more guidance than I can.
(#) XEvil_AngelX 2012-06-01 06:57:36 PMWow, that must be scary (sorry if I am like no help; I have never been drunk or had sex mainly 'cause im 14) but still; people will be there for you (I'm not saying your parents won't be shocked/disapointed at first but they will support you....'kay your going to be an awsome mom (seriously that kid is going to have an amazing taste in music)
(#) LunaLovegood 2012-06-02 12:29:42 AMOh my goodness! I'm happy you're ok!!!! That's SO scary, not knowing what's going on and how it happened! Definitely tell your parents, because they will support you and help you through this!
Also, you HAVE TO go to a hospital to check if you're ok!!!! You could have been forced into something, but can't remember it because of the drug! Your boyfriend will support you as well if he truly cares for you!
Take it one step at a time! First tell your family, and then talk to them about what to do. Family can also help you raise the child. But one step at a time! I hope you're ok! Message me if you'd like, I hope for all the best for you!!!!
Lots of love,
(#) PanicAtTheDiscoLover 2012-06-02 01:05:12 AMI'm really sorry to hear that, hun.
Allow me to tell you a story, it's a true one.
7 years ago, at age 16, my older sister found out she was pregnant. Like you, she didn't know how it happened, for she was a virgin, but something happened at a party she went to, just like you.
She found it so fucking difficult to tell the family and her friends. She didn't have a boyfriend at the time, which confused her more. She told me she remembers thinking "/I don't have a boyfriend. I lost my virginity to some random boy and now I'm pregnant. God, I'm such a slut./"
When she told the family, she basically decided she'd tell the parents first, before telling her siblings (me, my other sisters, and my brother). She told our mother first, because she became a mother around that age too. She basically said it straight to the point, "/Mom, I'm pregnant./" Same thing with our dad (except she said dad, not mom). They supported her from the start, and while they were a little shocked, and a tiny bit disappointed at first, they supported her when she decided to keep the baby.
7 years on, at age 23, she's glad she kept the baby. She is the mother of a beautiful little girl, and I'm proud to call her my sister, and whenever I'm out with them and people I know ask who they are, I'm proud to say, "/That's my sister and niece./"
The point of me telling you this is to tell you that while your parents might not be too happy about it at first, they'll support you in every decision you make. If not, fuck them. It's your body, you decide what to do with it.
You have my e-mail. If you need to rant or cry or whatever, hit me up! I may not be able to give good advice, but I'll listen.
(#) DaniAtaDisco 2012-06-02 08:05:42 AMI'm not for abortion but it's your body. Um and about your parents just tell them. If they really do love you they'd understand, and you boyfriend if he truly does care about you he'd understand and wont leave, if he leaves then he is a dick not worth your time. sorry if this advice is crappy. I'm not that experience in this stuff (mainly because I never drank nor had sex I'm 15) but hey I'm here for you, if you need a shoulder to cry on just email me: firstname.lastname@example.org do not hesitate if you need to talk to me.
(#) RestlessStars 2012-06-02 06:09:43 PMI'm so sorry, I can't even imagine how you must feel at the moment. However I agree you should definitely tell your parents and stress the fact that you didn't know what was going on and that someone possibly drugged you. Regardless of what happens, if you choose to go down the abortion road, do know that I will not hold it against you. I believe a baby isn't a baby until it becomes a fetus which is 12-13 weeks. You have the option and only YOU can decide, don't let anyone else try to make you feel bad about it. Again, that's IF you decide to go that route, I will not judge you. But I'm sure your parents will understand and if your boyfriend doesn't, then he doesn't deserve you. I hope this all works out for you whichever way you to decide to go. Good luck :)
(#) AdnarimSmada 2012-06-03 12:54:33 AMHey, if you haven't yet, YOU NEED TO TELL YOUR PARENTS RIGHT NOW.
YOU ALSO NEED TO TALK TO THE POLICE BECAUSE IT SOUNDS LIKE YOU WERE DATE RAPED.
As for the pregnancy thing, your boyfriend's a jackass if he can't understand the shit situation you're in isn't your fault. Whatever route you decide to take with that, it's ultimately your decision and no one, I don't care who they are, can judge you for it.
If you need to talk further, hit up my profile.
(#) XxPerfectTomorrowxX 2012-06-04 12:57:34 PMHoney, you were date raped... Stop worrying about what others will think of you because you're a victim and I'd hope they would see that.
You need to take care of yourself and that baby.
I'm catholic but I can understand why some people would get abortions, I'm pro choice always but I've never heard of a woman not regretting that decision so don't make it lightly.