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Oh Dear God, Help Me...
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So, I really need you guys to give me a bit of relationship advice...
My boyfriend broke up with me on Thursday. And the way he went about it is really strange. I shall put the Facebook messages on here. Its the entire conversation we had up until he changed the subject. Also he is Z (his name is Zach.) Mine will say M.
Z: Hey your probably gonna think this sounds stupid of me but I think we should break up... Its not that I don't love you or anything like that, I love you but I know we both get upset that we can't see each other and we can't see each other very much... I don't know if you would want to get back together when we are older and would be able to see each other more but I would love to. I'm sorry
M: Oh... I wasn't really expecting that... But... Um.. If that's how you feel.... I hope I didn't cause this..... I'm honestly crushed... I really hope someday you would consider getting back together with me... I hope this isn't my fault...
Z: It was in no way your fault. I'm sorry
M: You don't need to apologize...
Z: I feel like I should you said you didn't even expect it. It seems very rude to not apologize.
M: I didn't expect it... It was only a few days ago, I was telling you I love you and talking about having kids.... But you don't need to apologize. Its how you feel and you cant apologize for your emotions.
Z: Well it just kinda seemed out of the blue, I mean its not like I don't like you, we just don't get to see each other much. I would like to get back together when we would be able to see each other more like say when I would be able to drive
M: Honestly I wouldn't have seen that coming in a million years... And I still love you... But I understand what your feeling... and I want to get back together, whenever your ready...
Z: Well thanks... I didn't think you would be understanding...
M: I honestly didn't think I would be able to talk to you..
Z: Well it took alotta courage to.
So the rest is just me pretending I'm not upset. And him trying not to make it awkward. But what I want to know is if you're thinking the same thing I am. Which is: WHAT THE HELL IS GOING THROUGH HIS BRAIN!?!?!? He says he still loves me but he breaks up with me. And I got my best friend, who is also his good friend, to snoop around for me. He told her he feels awful and he did it because he thinks I'm always depressed because I can't see him. I'm never 'depressed' I'm bummed but I don't like cry about it. He said he just wants me to be happy. She told him that I'm a mess and that I didn't go to school the day after, which is true. I didn't even get out of bed, I just cried all day. He keeps saying he feels bad and that he wants to go back out but he has made no effort to ask me out again or eve told any one when he wants to go back out... I just wish I knew... Leave a comment or whatever telling me what you think... I really want an outsiders POV...
BACKGROUND INFO! (this will help a lot.): We don't go to the same school and he lives about twenty minutes to a half an hour away from me. We're both really busy and see each other maybe every other weekend if we're lucky. Sometimes its 3 weeks before I see him again. Its hard but I really love him and its really worth it. I've known him for about 2 years but we became really close in July and at the time I had a boyfriend, DJ, so I denied my feelings for him and ignored his for me. I thought DJ was the only one for me... But the day of our 8 month anniversary he cheated on me. I messaged Zach on Facebook about 3 days after DJ cheated on me. I told him everything and he listened and made me feel better. The next day I told my friend Chloe to tell him that he should ask me out. I didn't think he liked me because I friend-zoned him in the summer but after a few seconds of telling her to say that to him he messaged me and said "I mustache you a question". It was the cutest yet cheesiest thing any one had ever used to ask me out. After that he asked me out and of course I said yes. Up until Thursday everything was perfect. We talked whenever we could and when we got to hang out we had a great time and we never fight... I guess that's all for this part.
I hope that was enough to give give you an opinion... What should I do? Do you think that its worth it and I should wait for him? Just kinda tell me what you think...
Thanks guys.
Madeline.
My boyfriend broke up with me on Thursday. And the way he went about it is really strange. I shall put the Facebook messages on here. Its the entire conversation we had up until he changed the subject. Also he is Z (his name is Zach.) Mine will say M.
Z: Hey your probably gonna think this sounds stupid of me but I think we should break up... Its not that I don't love you or anything like that, I love you but I know we both get upset that we can't see each other and we can't see each other very much... I don't know if you would want to get back together when we are older and would be able to see each other more but I would love to. I'm sorry
M: Oh... I wasn't really expecting that... But... Um.. If that's how you feel.... I hope I didn't cause this..... I'm honestly crushed... I really hope someday you would consider getting back together with me... I hope this isn't my fault...
Z: It was in no way your fault. I'm sorry
M: You don't need to apologize...
Z: I feel like I should you said you didn't even expect it. It seems very rude to not apologize.
M: I didn't expect it... It was only a few days ago, I was telling you I love you and talking about having kids.... But you don't need to apologize. Its how you feel and you cant apologize for your emotions.
Z: Well it just kinda seemed out of the blue, I mean its not like I don't like you, we just don't get to see each other much. I would like to get back together when we would be able to see each other more like say when I would be able to drive
M: Honestly I wouldn't have seen that coming in a million years... And I still love you... But I understand what your feeling... and I want to get back together, whenever your ready...
Z: Well thanks... I didn't think you would be understanding...
M: I honestly didn't think I would be able to talk to you..
Z: Well it took alotta courage to.
So the rest is just me pretending I'm not upset. And him trying not to make it awkward. But what I want to know is if you're thinking the same thing I am. Which is: WHAT THE HELL IS GOING THROUGH HIS BRAIN!?!?!? He says he still loves me but he breaks up with me. And I got my best friend, who is also his good friend, to snoop around for me. He told her he feels awful and he did it because he thinks I'm always depressed because I can't see him. I'm never 'depressed' I'm bummed but I don't like cry about it. He said he just wants me to be happy. She told him that I'm a mess and that I didn't go to school the day after, which is true. I didn't even get out of bed, I just cried all day. He keeps saying he feels bad and that he wants to go back out but he has made no effort to ask me out again or eve told any one when he wants to go back out... I just wish I knew... Leave a comment or whatever telling me what you think... I really want an outsiders POV...
BACKGROUND INFO! (this will help a lot.): We don't go to the same school and he lives about twenty minutes to a half an hour away from me. We're both really busy and see each other maybe every other weekend if we're lucky. Sometimes its 3 weeks before I see him again. Its hard but I really love him and its really worth it. I've known him for about 2 years but we became really close in July and at the time I had a boyfriend, DJ, so I denied my feelings for him and ignored his for me. I thought DJ was the only one for me... But the day of our 8 month anniversary he cheated on me. I messaged Zach on Facebook about 3 days after DJ cheated on me. I told him everything and he listened and made me feel better. The next day I told my friend Chloe to tell him that he should ask me out. I didn't think he liked me because I friend-zoned him in the summer but after a few seconds of telling her to say that to him he messaged me and said "I mustache you a question". It was the cutest yet cheesiest thing any one had ever used to ask me out. After that he asked me out and of course I said yes. Up until Thursday everything was perfect. We talked whenever we could and when we got to hang out we had a great time and we never fight... I guess that's all for this part.
I hope that was enough to give give you an opinion... What should I do? Do you think that its worth it and I should wait for him? Just kinda tell me what you think...
Thanks guys.
Madeline.
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