(#) CosmicZombie 2012-12-22 09:05:48 AMI was disgusted when I read this. Calling you- calling anybody- something like that is emotional abuse and shouldn't happen. Especially if people know you've struggled with body image- that is really low. No one should label anyone, but especially when they don't even know them personally. I hope you know that you're really not ugly, and please, please don't hurt yourself. I don't know you personally, but from what I know about you from FicWad, you seem pretty amazing, and your writing is bloody beautiful. Don't listen to people like that, they're not worth it, and what they say is just total bullshit. You're really talented and strong, and you need to believe that. Email me if you want to, and please, like I said- don't hurt yourself.
- WHAT?! I'M NOT ONE TO TAKE FUCKING SIDES,
But my god; I'm disgusted....
YOU NEVER, EVER EVER CALL someone fat(coming from an on-off anorexic)
Hun, please don't.
Nevermind; It won't do anything that I say "don't"
I hate to see(well hear) you like this;
If I lived close to you; I would slam down your door and glomp you like a mothafucka'
(#) Cookie_monster 2012-12-22 09:09:13 AMAsh, you're not ugly and you're not fat and I love you. I'm so sorry you've had to go through all of this, you don't deserve any of it. You helped me so much and you always knew what to say to make me feel better and I really wish I had that skill and that I could make everything okay for you :( Just stay strong please and email me whenever you want/need to, I'll try my best to make you feel better!
(#) ValentineRevenge 2012-12-22 09:17:06 AMSeriously, you should never call someone fat, it hurts a lot, especially if that person has body image and self confidence situations. Hel, eveni f they don't that doesn't mean that it doesn't still hurt and could lead them to have those kinds of situations in the future... God, I'm disgusted by some people.
Ash, you're fcking gorgeous, you hear me? Never let any little fuckwad tell you something different from that. Never let anyone call you fat, because studies prove most of the time that people bully/abuse others is because either they were bullied/abused, or just want to make themselves look stronger.
The truth of the matter is, there's no glory in bullying someone on the edge just to make yourself look stronger. Because in the end, you'll just make yourself look weak as fuck.
If you ever need anything, anything at all email me, or just show up at my house at 3 AM. I have backrubs and feet massages waiting for you to make you feel better, no perversion intended. Seriously though, you deserve something that would make you feel happy and forget about those bitches that call you that.
And if you decide to go purge or cut, I will be right there next to you with bandages and to hold your hair back.
(#) Mcrroxursox45 2012-12-22 09:38:31 AMTHATS NOT HOW I MEANT IT!
I'M ACTUALLY SITTING HERE OPEN-MOUTHED BECAUSE YOU THINK I MEANT IT AS FAT!
I SWEAR TO YOU THAT THAT IS NOT AT ALL HOW I MEANT IT.
IT'S JUST A NICK NAME I USE.
I'M SO SORRY YOU'RE CRYING, I PROMISE YOU I DIDN'T MEAN IT LIKE THAT.
I SHOULD'VE THOUGHT ABOUT HOW YOU MIGHT TAKE IT, I'M REALLY SORRY.
I UNDERSTAND IF YOU DON'T ACCEPT MY APOLOGY.
I'M SORRY THAT I'M TYPING IN ALL CAPS, BUT I'M TRYING TO GET MY POINT ACCROSS.
(#) Mcrroxursox45 2012-12-22 09:40:59 AMBESIDES IF I HAD THOUGHT ABOUT IT, I'D USE SOMETHING LIKE DOLL-BABY OR SOMETHING.
I'M ON BIRTH CONTROL, SO I GAINED A SHIT TON OF WEIGHT, SO I KNOW BEING CALLED FAT SUCKS.
ONCE AGAIN, I'M SORRY, BUT IT WAS UNINTENTIONAL.
IN MY TOWN IT'S NOT A MEAN THING TO SAY, JUST KIND OF A NICK NAME OR PET NAME.
SO, SO SORRY.
I MEAN, I DON'T EXACTLY LIKE YOU, BUT I'D NEVER INTENTIONALLY CALL YOU FAT.
I SWEAR ON MY FAMILY'S GRAVE.
(#) BipolarUnicorn 2012-12-22 10:09:40 AMWoah, woah, woah. Back the fuck up.
They called you /what/?
Whoever it was they had no right. That is just cruel and mean. Fuck, I'm disgusted. I mean /fuck/. You don't do that.
I'm pissed. Two amazing authors left and now there is name calling and all this kindergarten shit.
Ash, your beautiful babe don't ever forget. In the words of Jack Barakat, "Beauty isn't based off the size of our jeans." You don't ever call some fat. Ash, please don't do it. I'm not saying this cause its out of sympathy. It's because I care. I hate when people give me sympathy. Don't do this to yourself, it's not going to make you feel any better. You should never want to hurt yourself, no matter how bad you think about yourself. Your stronger than this Clarie, i know you are.
Just no that I care, and doing that to yourself hurts me. Same goes for everyone else on here.
Feel better and know that if you wanna rant or just talk I'm there.
I'm getting sick of some of this shit on here.