Oh my God. You sound like me.
Be warned! Prepare for a TON of Frerard fanfics, it's the only way to go these days, apparently.
I'm not into Bandcest, so I don't know.
There were some trolls around here, but then we started a Troll-resistance army and scared them off with some sort of virtual Haka thing. It was lovely.
Regards,
Captain Canada, Mynameisnotimportant