Actually, no one seems to want to see his side of it. He fell in love with this women, ended up with two teenagers -- one who ran off and got married, his ex shows up, he finds out that he may be a father, the ex dies, he finds out that he may not be a brother.
In the meantime of all this, Monica saddled him with tons of drama during their relationship- which he was understanding and supportive through. He got her a house and as shared everything with her so far. She definitely has him on a string.
More so, she involved herself in his relationship with Liv and Elle. She has lied to him several times. Everyone wants her to be this Saint -but she has been quite controlling- and because of her, he has lost friends, his brother, and maybe the band.
Now all he hears is what a jerk he is because he is upset over Liv and the possibility that Elle isn't his, coupled with being expected to be super dad to a very bitchy, immature, selfish, married teen, a needy teenage girl, and a toddler.
I hate to say it, but I think he needs to say "see ya," quit the band, give her the house for her troubles, and head to a cabin in Oregon. He's better off without all these people consistently reenforcing what a tool he is because he dares to be hurt and because he feels betrayed.
Sandee- you are an amazing writer -- this is such a great story with so many layers!