I totally get this, I tried to romance with a 'good friend' and when we kissed it was like damp firework that had been pee'd on by a cat and when it set off, just sort of fizzled into the grass and died.
Nicely done. It was realistic too.
Author's response
Thanks for the review. I drew on an experience from last year--dated a guy who seemed perfect for me, but we were too alike and now we're just friends. Glad you liked it.