I read "horrible love-life" and immediately thought of your FicWad marriage. Lawlz.
Anyhoo. Look up LostAlone, the band. I need more people to like them! Ooh, and Regina Spektor! On the Radio is my favorite by her, all her old stuff.
OH and if you don't mind, Thinking of You by Katy Perry. The music video made me cry.
Okay I'm done here. Farewell broski.