I think there should be a section for people to rant about this sort of stuff. You like there's a section for every other thing apart from auther's notes and ranting. But I do agree with CarcinoGeneticist, the majority of people on this site are 14 year olds and some can be immiture fucks. I could name quiet a lot but I won't for obvious reasons.
But I'm so sorry for your loss, I know how it feels to lose a loved one, especially a your own pet, my cat died a while ago now and still hurts to think about her. It takes a while to get over these things and the wounds never really heal and even though we've never really spoke I am still here for you ;)