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the instruction is lacking in a vital area. Words cannot communicate everywhere close
as effectively as pictures can. You can talk all day to a boy about how members or
the fear that their penis or breasts are strange. But if they have
Chances to see dick and breasts in all their astonishing variety, the point
is driven home that their body is just as ordinary and okay as anyone
else's.
Kids aren't permitted
to meet their totally natural fascination when it is safe to achieve that. Adults
Prepubescent kids don't.
Before children have to
Begin dealing with sexual urges.
Yet, astoundingly, we
Believe the most terrible thing of all is to allow a kid to see an adult naked.
What tragedy!
Instead, we compel children
to wait until they enter puberty. Then they not only have to take care of their
Fascination driven by a natural and wholesome desire to become trained, but also
driven by these brand new, almost overwhelming sexual urges. They get it all
dumped on them at once and are left alone to deal with it on their own.
Is it any wonder there is
sexual dysfunction in our society? Is it any wonder teen sexual activity and
Is this not true child
Maltreatment?
once children reach puberty, they will begin preparing themselves, one
Manner or another. If parents or another adult authority figure doesn't help
them do it, they will do it by themselves.
And we all understand how they
They will assemble
misinformation from friends as ignorant as themselves. They will develop
addictions to pornography. They will experiment with nudity and sex among
themselves, ignorant of the dangers entailed. And they will do it all with a
ghastly mental stew of sexual arousal, shame, guilt, and rebellion combined into
it.
Oh yes, this is considerably
better than allowing kids to experience nudity under cautious adult
Oversight before their sexual hormones start to stream.
An grownup letting a child
to see them nude is child abuse? No, no. The law that criminalizes letting
a kid see an mature nude is child abuse.
Nudity that's thought to
be shocking or sexual or endangering or lewd through the individual's objective
and behaviour--now that's child abuse. But officially defining the only
existence of nudity as lewdness or obscenity is an bad, archaic view that
Children are never instructed
to accept the aging cycle of human beings. Everyone fears getting old. We believe
old bodies are horrible. We fear them. For God's sake, cover them up!
behold, take a look at the youth-worshiping culture we now have. Coincidence?
spent on makeup, garments, even surgery, to try and pretend we are not becoming
old. Why? Because we dread it. Why? Because we never see it.
Because we constantly hide
human bodies. That which is hidden from us is mysterious and awful.
If we could only see
human bodies in all the various phases of aging on a regular basis, it would
Aging would be a natural thing,
not something to fight tooth and nail in dread.
Is it not mental mistreatment
to instruct people to fear the natural life cycles of their own bodies?
Children, like all folks,
They are their bodies. If we teach
them to be frightened and ashamed of their bodies (and we do), they will be embarrassed
of themselves. And thus a uncontrolled outbreak of self-loathing prospers in our
culture.
Especially our ladies. The
most amazing women on earth still think there's something wrong with their
bodies.
Children are killing
themselves over lousy self-image.
Passing because she can not accept her body is a victim of the self-loathing that
anti-nude attitudes help to cultivate.
someone for "dissing" him is literally killing children over self esteem. "You

disrespect me, you expire."
And where does this
Wild lack of self esteem come from? The causes are complex, but how can the
lifelong shame we feel over our own bodies not be a contributor?
Our luxury of concealment
Never mind psychological
abuse. This is physical mistreatment of the most hideous sort. All because we do not want to
see a bare human body.
That's where the true
Many children never get to
feel completely comfortable with the opposite sex and never get an acceptable
Instruction on human bodies to fulfill their interest. Most children will not
Bear this situation forever. If the adult community won't satisfy their need